Advice

What is Ambition to You?

By Jessie Reed, Literature BA Student

What is ambition? What does it mean to you? According to Dictionary.com, ambition is an earnest desire for achievement or distinction, such as power, honor, fame, wealth, and the willingness to attain it. Ambition is a strong desire for distinction and recognition of achievement, doing something that I will always be remembered for even after I leave this world and achieve it. Ambition is a desire or dream of something great in life and working hard to achieve it.

Most people have different ambitions, so the word ambition has a different meaning depending on whom you ask. Some may want to become highly wealthy; some may want to achieve great fame; some may want to be an influential world leader; and some may wish to earn tremendous honor. As for me, I want to achieve something that I will always be remembered for, even long after I am dead and gone. I long to be remembered as a strong, honest, intelligent person with a positive attitude who always did what I could to bring a smile to someone else’s face, giving them hope, courage, faith, and confidence to do and be their best in every situation.

 “While one may encounter many defeats, one must not be defeated.” – Maya Angelou

Since I was seven years old, I have faced many tragedies and adversities. Yet, I have always had the ambition to have a better life and a brighter future. I’ve had to fight tremendous obstacles to achieve my dreams, goals, and desires. Ever since I was a little girl, I have wanted to become a great writer, not to be famous or wealthy, but to encourage everyone who reads my work. I am driven to tell my stories with absolute enthusiasm. I love talking to others about the struggles and tragedies that I have overcome in my life. If I share my stories, I can give others courage, strength, and determination to help them succeed in life.

Although the road has not been easy, I strive for success as I go through life’s journeys. While I have many regrets about the decisions that I have made, I know that each wrong decision was just a stepping stone in accomplishing my dreams. I have learned what NOT to do and how to make the most out of every day God allows me to live. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone; we all should live each day like our last.

Ambition takes a lot of hard work and determination; you have to set a goal in life and do everything in your power to attain that goal. Don’t let anyone tell you that you cannot achieve it. Have a desire to learn, keep an open mind, be willing to take risks, know your limitations, and learn from your mistakes. Yet, never look at a mistake as a failure; instead, take it as a chance to do it better. Throughout history, ambition has been a driving force for individuals and society. No matter what nationality, male or female, background, or age you are, you are undoubtedly ambitious in some way. Without ambition, we have no purpose in our lives. Nothing can stop us from achieving what we want in life. Our only obstacle is ourselves and the extent of our ability to differentiate between a worthwhile and self-destructive goal.

community engagement

Culture, Community, Celebrations – 2023 Year in Review! 🎉🎊🎈

It has been a busy year for the Center for Student Engagement and Activities! Getting to connect with so many of our talented students over the last 12 months has left us endlessly honored, grateful, and inspired. As we’re wrapping up 2023, we wanted to go down memory lane and highlight some of the amazing moments we’ve had this year with our #NUfam!

We started off the year strong with our inaugural CSEA Webinar with Crystal Chisholm on Building your Personal Brand!

We went on to do five more webinars throughout the year on topics including social media, self-publishing, AI, goal setting, and mentoring! In case you missed it, you can view now these webinar recordings right here on our blog!

What topics/speakers would you like to see next?

Throughout 2023 we also had a variety of celebrations highlighting a diverse range of cultures, experiences, and wisdom.

At our events, we asked you:

About Hispanic Heritage:

Your thoughts on self-care:

We gamified learning:

Through various cultural lenses:

And of course, gave away lots of prizes! 🏆

In addition, we had some big wins for cultural competency and inclusivity through training over 50 members of our NU Community in creating Safe Zones for LGBTQIA+ communities and raising the inclusive pride flag for the first time at Spectrum Campus!

One of our favorite highlights from this year was getting to connect with our wonderful students and alumni in person!

We still fondly reminisce about our Lunar Year Celebration in February at Spectrum Campus. 🧧🎊 (View our full event recap here!)

And we will never forget the magic at the San Diego Pride Parade in July. 🌈✨

We highlighted some amazing students voices with our First-Generation and Military-Affiliated Panels. (Recordings also available on this blog!)

And we can’t forget the wonderful collaboration we did with Student Wellness and The Whole Person Center for our Guided Journaling Event!

To say this was a big year for us would be an understatement. We are truly humbled by the increase in engagement we’ve seen in 2023 and are so excited to see what 2024 has in store for us!

We will continue to provide opportunities for connection, learning, and joy for our students and we hope that you will be a part of this journey with us!

Keep up to date with our student organizations, events, and programs through our Linktr.ee! And be sure to check your NU email and your D2L container at the beginning of each month to see what we have in store!

Thank you again to everyone who took the time to connect with us, attend one of our events/webinars, join a student organization, and read our blog!

We wish you all a Happy Holiday Season and New Year! We’ll see you in 2024!

P.S. What was your favorite memory of 2023? Leave a comment to let us know!

Advice, community engagement, First generation, self care

Freedom in Letting Go

By Annyce Torres, President of Mind + Body Wellness Student Org

There is an oft repeated saying that “anything you have to control, controls you.”

Woman in front of railing.
Annyce Torres
President of Mind + Body Wellness Student Org

What are we holding on to that is limiting our freedom that we might not be aware of? As humans, we have the ability to weigh out our options and take inventory of what is best for us. We are usually able to understand the danger of holding onto things that no longer serve us and our highest goals. Unfortunately, so many of the hardships that we experience in life are those that we create for ourselves.

As a first-generation college student, I’ve had to take a hard look at the behaviors and beliefs that I’ve held onto over the years. I’ve had to realize that the behaviors that I used to engage in no longer serve me. They were adopted as tools used to survive in situations that I am no longer in. The beliefs that I used to have such as self-doubt and other limiting beliefs will not serve me as I move forward in my attempt to learn enough to serve others. The people that I used to associate with are not necessarily understanding of the direction that I am taking my life.

Woman in front of blue sky.
Annyce Torres
President of Mind + Body Wellness Student Org

Whether we are clinging to being “right,” anger and resentment, self-pity and self-doubt, or people that are not in line with our highest goals, we run the risk of placing those attachments ahead of our own well-being. We must take advantage of our ability to think critically. And as we engage in this self-examination it is best to remember that the trap itself is not the problem. It’s the choices that we make – and continue to make – that determine whether a trap is a trap after all. It is our willingness to let go that determines our freedom to move forward and live our best life-with the degree we are earning.

I’ll leave you with this story I once read about how hunters trapped monkeys in Africa and Asia:

Monkey in a trap drawing
Monkey Trap – image reference

It’s said that in order to catch the monkey, hunters would first drill a hole in a location just large enough for the monkey’s hand to go through and place a nut or fruit in it. Seeing the food, the money would reach through to grab it, but his closed fist would be too large to fit back through the hole, trapping it in place. Even as the monkey would see the hunter closing in on him, he still would not let go of the food in order to escape.

In the end, the monkey gives up his very freedom, in exchange for a handful of food. The monkey is blinded by its attachment to what is in front of him. Let this serve as a reminder for us to forward beyond our own attachments that may be holding us back and trapping us in toxic situations.

Continue the conversation! Take some time for yourself and connect with other students!

Join Annyce on the fourth Thursday of every month from 5-6pm PDT for the Mind + Body Wellness monthly meetings! You can join the meetings via this Zoom Link!

Open to all students! Find community with others interested in all things wellness! ✨🌻🙌

And don’t forget to follow @mindbodywellnessnu on Instagram for updates and mental health resources!