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Hey, We Got That PMA!

Written by Lux Marquez, Educators United & Pride@NU Club Member

College is chaos. The world is chaos. And if you’re reading this, you’re probably trying to survive both with your brain, your heart, and your dignity intact. So let’s talk about something radical, something loud, something that punches through the noise like a power chord at a basement show: Positive Mental Attitude—PMA, baby.

Now, before you roll your eyes and mutter “toxic positivity,” hear me out. PMA isn’t about pretending everything’s fine when it’s not. It’s about choosing to fight with love, with fire, and with the unshakable belief that you matter—even when the system says you don’t.

A collage featuring the letters 'PMA' prominently in the center, surrounded by various playful graphics including hearts, a megaphone, a record, a vintage camera, headphones, and a cat, all set against a muted green background.


Bad Brains said it best: “Don’t care what they may say, we got that attitude!” That’s not just a lyric—it’s a battle cry. PMA is punk. It’s resistance. It’s showing up to class when your rent’s overdue, your government’s a mess, and your identity’s under attack. It’s writing that paper like it’s a manifesto. It’s organizing, surviving, and thriving in a world that wasn’t built for you. And Bikini Kill? “I’ve got the love that’s strong and not weak!” That’s the kind of love PMA demands. Love for yourself, your community, your weirdness, your rage. PMA doesn’t mean you’re never angry—it means your anger is rooted in hope, not despair.

In a world where marginalized students are told to shrink, PMA says: Take up space. Be loud. Be brilliant. Be unapologetically you. Whether you’re the only queer kid in your class, the first in your family to go to college, or just trying to stay afloat in a sea of deadlines and doomscrolling—PMA is your armor and your amplifier. So next time you’re staring down the barrel of that 10-page paper, a protest, or just another day of being alive in 2025, remember: You’ve got that attitude. And that attitude? It’s punk as hell.

Advice

What is Ambition to You?

By Jessie Reed, Literature BA Student

What is ambition? What does it mean to you? According to Dictionary.com, ambition is an earnest desire for achievement or distinction, such as power, honor, fame, wealth, and the willingness to attain it. Ambition is a strong desire for distinction and recognition of achievement, doing something that I will always be remembered for even after I leave this world and achieve it. Ambition is a desire or dream of something great in life and working hard to achieve it.

Most people have different ambitions, so the word ambition has a different meaning depending on whom you ask. Some may want to become highly wealthy; some may want to achieve great fame; some may want to be an influential world leader; and some may wish to earn tremendous honor. As for me, I want to achieve something that I will always be remembered for, even long after I am dead and gone. I long to be remembered as a strong, honest, intelligent person with a positive attitude who always did what I could to bring a smile to someone else’s face, giving them hope, courage, faith, and confidence to do and be their best in every situation.

 “While one may encounter many defeats, one must not be defeated.” – Maya Angelou

Since I was seven years old, I have faced many tragedies and adversities. Yet, I have always had the ambition to have a better life and a brighter future. I’ve had to fight tremendous obstacles to achieve my dreams, goals, and desires. Ever since I was a little girl, I have wanted to become a great writer, not to be famous or wealthy, but to encourage everyone who reads my work. I am driven to tell my stories with absolute enthusiasm. I love talking to others about the struggles and tragedies that I have overcome in my life. If I share my stories, I can give others courage, strength, and determination to help them succeed in life.

Although the road has not been easy, I strive for success as I go through life’s journeys. While I have many regrets about the decisions that I have made, I know that each wrong decision was just a stepping stone in accomplishing my dreams. I have learned what NOT to do and how to make the most out of every day God allows me to live. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone; we all should live each day like our last.

Ambition takes a lot of hard work and determination; you have to set a goal in life and do everything in your power to attain that goal. Don’t let anyone tell you that you cannot achieve it. Have a desire to learn, keep an open mind, be willing to take risks, know your limitations, and learn from your mistakes. Yet, never look at a mistake as a failure; instead, take it as a chance to do it better. Throughout history, ambition has been a driving force for individuals and society. No matter what nationality, male or female, background, or age you are, you are undoubtedly ambitious in some way. Without ambition, we have no purpose in our lives. Nothing can stop us from achieving what we want in life. Our only obstacle is ourselves and the extent of our ability to differentiate between a worthwhile and self-destructive goal.

Advice

What Your Fellow Students Want You to Know: Advice + Reflections 🎓💡📚

This past Tuesday, we hosted our virtual club fair—NU Engage! We heard from our 15 (and counting!) student organizations, played some trivia, shared resources, and gathered some amazing words of wisdom from our NU student community!

If you’re feeling lost, don’t know where to start, or need a little encouragement—keep reading for advice, resources, and more!

A key theme in our discussion was student organizations. Getting involved in clubs helps with your professional development, allows you to find and create community, and build strong co-curricular skills! But don’t just take our word for it–here are some reasons why club leadership is important from your fellow students:

For Law Students, leadership roles are good for networking and connections, plus post graduation connections/events/conferences.

[It] helps others and [allows you to] discover more.

It provides support, guidance, and unity!

In addition, we received tips from current students on:

Staying organized:

Plan things out in advance, and schedule yourself, especially if you are online. If you do get behind though, definitely still turn stuff in so you learn the material and still get some points. Some points are better than none.

Have a planner and have a whiteboard of your assignments, print out everything at the start, have a binder for each class with every week separated.

On maintaining a work/life/school balance:

Get your family on board. They will miss you, at least at some points, so they need to be supportive through foreknowledge.

On advocating for yourself and using the wide array of resources available to you at NU:

Do a wellness check up.

Reach out to your professors. Don’t be afraid to ask questions when something isn’t clear.

Start collecting a network!

Fun Fact: A great place start building a network and finding a mentor is through our NU Mentoring Network!

Make friends in Career Services! They’re awesome!

Did you know our career services team offers free workshops, resume and cover letter review, mock interviews, career advising, and more? They’re pretty great!

Utilize all the great learner and support resources that are available!

In addition to the resources above, we also wanted to highlight our Student Wellness, Whole Person Center, Academic Success Center, Alumni Association, and Virtual Veterans Center offices!

To end, we’d like to share these words of encouragement by one of your fellow students:

As someone in my last course MSW, my advice is to persevere and not give up, it may seem impossible but giving up is worse. All of us have bad moments and that is a time to rest and reflect while having a positive outlook and opinion of self.

Your NU community is rooting for you. Wings up! 🤙